http://partylikeamomstar.comQuick Blogcasthttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/07/09/going-to-the-big-dand-i-dont-mean-dallas.aspx#comment-3307049Oh...what he did I could never imagine doing. If my girlfriend/wife was in any trouble whatsoever, I would be the first to be calling 911...you would have to stop me.<br /><br />And yes, he should have manned up!The Urban Cowboy2010-07-11T23:26:16Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/07/09/going-to-the-big-dand-i-dont-mean-dallas.aspx#comment-3307035Thank you so much for your support and point of view. I do understand how he may have felt alone when I left, but also when he wouldn't help me in my time of need, I felt so alone. It was kind of like I was standing in the middle of my bedroom screaming at the top of my lungs and nothing was coming out!!! It was a very difficult time<img src="http://partylikeamomstar.com/emoticons/sad.png" border="0" /> I thought he would man up and try to fix the relationship, but it didn't happen. That's okay, there is someone out there for you and for me that is just perfect!!! We just haven't crossed paths with them yet<img src="http://partylikeamomstar.com/emoticons/smile.png" border="0" /> Good luck to you<img src="http://partylikeamomstar.com/emoticons/smile.png" border="0" />MomStar2010-07-11T23:01:11Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/07/09/going-to-the-big-dand-i-dont-mean-dallas.aspx#comment-3307029I was actually reading your blog the other day and I feel so sorry for you as well<img src="http://partylikeamomstar.com/emoticons/sad.png" border="0" /> I know our circumstances are differet but the pain is still the same! I tried to comment on your post, but I forgot the password to my google account!! LOL!! I am NEVER EVER going to let my girls go!!! I do however have to do what the law says and share them with my husband<img src="http://partylikeamomstar.com/emoticons/sad.png" border="0" /> That has been one of the hardest things so far<img src="http://partylikeamomstar.com/emoticons/sad.png" border="0" /> Hope everything works out with you and I will be posting.....MomStar2010-07-11T22:57:03Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/07/09/going-to-the-big-dand-i-dont-mean-dallas.aspx#comment-3306736I'm so sorry you're going through all of this pain. Having just finalized my own divorce, I can relate to a degree, although circumstances are different.<br /><br />You're not letting go of those girls at all though. Things will be different but they're still yours just as much as ever!blueviolet2010-07-11T18:31:49Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/07/09/going-to-the-big-dand-i-dont-mean-dallas.aspx#comment-3306714Oh MomStar, so sorry to hear this, I too am going through a break up(as you know), it's not a marriage of 11 years, but it is just as painful. <br /><br />You said you wanted to leave him in order to make your relationship stronger. Now I am just talking from my own perspective, but I would feel abandoned which would lead to resentment.<br /><br />But, I would also be open to mending the relationship too.<br /><br />Wishing you all the best in your trying time.The Urban Cowboy2010-07-11T18:10:09Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/01/20/heart-attack-er-and-phemonia.aspx#comment-3213026What a scary night for you! Glad it was pneumonia (even though that is bad in itself) and not a heart attack.The Urban Cowboy2010-06-11T05:14:31Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/01/20/heart-attack-er-and-phemonia.aspx#comment-2822662Thanks God it's only pneumonia.Take care of your self. Before it's to late.Vince2010-02-13T06:00:00Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/01/20/heart-attack-er-and-phemonia.aspx#comment-2785364Hi Momstar, so glad that you are well. I wasn't expecting to read that. I have been thinking about you and wanting to read your blog but it's taken me this long to get around to it. <br />Get well soon and take care of yourself. <br />Reading your other posts now.tanya2010-02-03T17:55:05Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/01/20/heart-attack-er-and-phemonia.aspx#comment-2749007Glad to hear it was only Pneaumonia, even though that is no fun either. Hope youfeel better soon.Christina2010-01-22T20:26:40Zhttp://partylikeamomstar.com/2010/01/20/heart-attack-er-and-phemonia.aspx#comment-2743560I am SO glad it wasn't a heart attack, but your symptoms really sounded like it! I hope you feel better really soon!blueviolet2010-01-20T22:25:06Z